Right the part I need to write. I need to make myself look cool, normal - but not boring. Funny, everyone loves to laugh - but not crazy. I need to look open for adventure but also happy to enjoy quiet nights in. Not a couch potato. Oh and I need to love sports and be outdoorsy for a lot of my time. Love animals but not be a crazy cat lady. I have that one down as I'm totally allergic to cats.
Oh and I can't write anything about my children as that is just a put off. It doesn't matter that they are friggin awesome and a joy to be around. That we come as a 3 for the price of 1 package and that any man should be blessed to have the 3 musketeers. No, they are seen as baggage.
Then there is the faith side.
I need to look like I know what I am talking about but not be a religious freak. I know my faith is real and I go to church and I am active in my walk with God. But I don't want to have to explain all that.
This is just a minefield.
Then its what do I want?. Well I'm not sure I can put what I want. But here goes - What I want is a man who loves the Lord, who would put God in the centre of our relationship. Who walks with God daily and prays with me. Who loves my children as his own. I also want someone who isn't on their phone 24/7, who feeds our relationship, who is romantic (skip the flowers and chocolates, just buy me stationary), who wants to go on family holidays, trips away and spend time as a family at the weekends.
Someone who wants to do the boring everyday life with me and slouch on the couch after dinner in our jammies and watch crap TV and pretend were on goggle box.
A man who encourages me in my walk with God and helps me flourish.
I want a life partner who wants to build life with me and my kiddos.
And then there is the waves. Shall I wave?. It is a bit full on if a girl waves? Should i bite the the bullet and message. Then I press wave as I hold my breath like my computer is going to explode and suddenly I am exposed. But then no wave back. And really I want to be chased and waved at but maybe men just don't bother anymore.
Oh and I can't write anything about my children as that is just a put off. It doesn't matter that they are friggin awesome and a joy to be around. That we come as a 3 for the price of 1 package and that any man should be blessed to have the 3 musketeers. No, they are seen as baggage.
Then there is the faith side.
I need to look like I know what I am talking about but not be a religious freak. I know my faith is real and I go to church and I am active in my walk with God. But I don't want to have to explain all that.
This is just a minefield.
Then its what do I want?. Well I'm not sure I can put what I want. But here goes - What I want is a man who loves the Lord, who would put God in the centre of our relationship. Who walks with God daily and prays with me. Who loves my children as his own. I also want someone who isn't on their phone 24/7, who feeds our relationship, who is romantic (skip the flowers and chocolates, just buy me stationary), who wants to go on family holidays, trips away and spend time as a family at the weekends.
Someone who wants to do the boring everyday life with me and slouch on the couch after dinner in our jammies and watch crap TV and pretend were on goggle box.
A man who encourages me in my walk with God and helps me flourish.
I want a life partner who wants to build life with me and my kiddos.
And then there is the waves. Shall I wave?. It is a bit full on if a girl waves? Should i bite the the bullet and message. Then I press wave as I hold my breath like my computer is going to explode and suddenly I am exposed. But then no wave back. And really I want to be chased and waved at but maybe men just don't bother anymore.
And if your gonna wave men, don’t be over 60. I’m not looking for a sugar Daddy. I’m not looking for a Daddy at all.
And if you say Hi, and I reply. I do not want to be the one asking all the questions. I am not going to up keep the conversation. If you want to know more about me. Ask.
And then I think I shouldn't be on a dating website at all as God will bring the right person at the right time. But then maybe I need to go with the changing of times and go with the flow.
Why is it all so hard.
What happened to just asking a girl out for a drink or a coffee?.
And then I think I shouldn't be on a dating website at all as God will bring the right person at the right time. But then maybe I need to go with the changing of times and go with the flow.
Why is it all so hard.
What happened to just asking a girl out for a drink or a coffee?.
